



John was assigned the even and I the odd numbers of the 12 days and we each began to hunt for landmarks, buildings, and sites in Berlin that roughly matched the lines of the song. Yesterday morning we presented our clues to each other, and once solved, set out in Berlin to take pictures. Here we present the “12 Days of Christmas in Berlin.”
On the twelfth day of Christmas, Berlin gave to me:
A favorite restaurant in Berlin, noted for its unique pizzas.
On the eleventh day of Christmas, Berlin gave to me:
The Neue Wache, a war memorial.
On the tenth day of Christmas, Berlin gave to me:
The Weltzeituhr, the World Time Clock at Alexanderplatz.
On the ninth day of Christmas, Berlin gave to me:
A statue in front of the Auswärtiges Amt, the Foreign Ministry where John worked.
Let me preface this by saying that the following is more a commentary on my personal skills in the kitchen than a critique of German culture, culinary conventions, or kitchens. As her blog shows, Christina, a friend here in Berlin, is able to produce delicious meals in spite of (even in light of) our location. And, the included picture is not from here in Berlin. It's from a birthday party for John and other friends last year. (We miss you, Yada!) It's just picture evidence that I do cook.
When I go into a Spätkauf (sort of like a convenience store) looking for eggs and get worried because they are not in the refrigerator, I have to remember - Germans don’t refrigerate eggs. I just need to look on the shelves next to the cookies.
Neither sour cream nor cream cheese are sold in 8oz packages. American recipes repeatedly and consistently call for these amounts and I repeatedly have to sprint to the computer (because inevitably I don’t remember this until I’m in the middle of making something) do calculations, run the numbers and then maybe, approximately come out with the correct amount.
Mexicorn does not exist in Germany. However, other canned corn mixes do exist in great variety. zum Beispiel (for example): corn + red peppers and green beans, corn + pineapple, corn + kidney beans, corn + carrots.
My mother has always been “on call” when I’m in the kitchen and this tradition hasn’t stopped just because I live in a radically different time zone. (Thank you Skype, for letting me call US home phones, work phones, and cell phones when necessary.)
zum Beispiel:
Me: “Mom, my cake is bubbling over and out of the bundt pan in the oven. There are blobs of cake cooking all over the bottom of the oven and running down the sides of the pan. Should I take it out?.”
Mom: “Yeah, you can’t save it. You’re going to need to take it out before it makes a bigger mess.”
Me: pause...“So this is a total loss?”
Mom: “Yes, definitely. Go get it out of the oven immediately!”
Cooking without a microwave is really only an inconvenience when it comes time to reheat leftovers. I can soften butter by letting it hang out on the radiator. I can (begrudgingly) do without popcorn for a year. But trying to cook meals that last for more than one sitting is a pain in the butt. Reheating pasta is particularly a challenge (one that requires my special brand of trial and error.)
Why have I had to learn to go to the grocery store with at least two viable recipe options for dinner? Because our grocery store erratically stocks meat. Today it’s nothing but turkey schnitzel and chicken wings. Tomorrow it may be ground beef and pork chops. Oh, they always have sausage. Always.
It’s hard to know what to say about the fall of the Berlin Wall, whose 20th anniversary we celebrated here this week. Where does one even begin to describe arguably the most important single event of the last half century? We’ve heard for months about the celebrations being planned, and naturally it’s been the hot topic here all year. We’ve also had lots of people asking us about the mood here in Berlin. So I’ve been asking a lot of people what the Mauerfall (wall fall) means to them, and oddly enough, the opinions are all over the place, depending on whether you ask a man or woman, twenty-something or a retiree, and most importantly, a Wessi (former west German) or an Ossi (former east German). Their reactions cover a full range of emotions: joy, pride, confidence, relief, liberation, and optimism but also disappointment, frustration, uncertainty, disillusionment, and confusion. This latter set of emotions has for a long time struck me as odd, and it was only until recently that I began to understand it for myself.
The Mauerfall for many Germans seems not to represent a single moment in history but the start of a long and often painful process that most non-Germans simply don’t grasp. Millions of Ossis lost their jobs, their ideological system, their national anthem and flag, their schools and textbooks, their favorite consumer products, currency (and with it their savings), and their identity as a people. For the Wessis, there often is resentment that they’ve had to pay for the adjustments in the East with little to show for it. And even though the Ossis love freedom as much as the Wessis, many seem disillusioned with the promises of the West and the way things have (or rather not) progressed. Wessis, conversely, often read this as ungratefulness. This complicates feelings, leading to a strange nostalgia for the old days when the two Germanys were still divided (described here and here and here). Many say that while the Berlin Wall has fallen, the wall still remains in the minds of many Germans. What I find interesting is that so many Germans have been willing to discuss this openly with me.
Thus the reason for the array of emotions that the Mauerfall creates over here in Berlin, which I’ve tried to describe as best I could. It’s been a truly priceless experience - not only to be a part of all the incredible festivities that transpired on Monday, but also to witness the living history that is still slowly working itself out, even twenty years later.